On my way home from my piano lesson today, I felt so happy, encouraged, and grateful. You see, last spring I asked a friend who is involved in local music educators activities if she might know a teacher who accepts adult students. She answered quickly, “I know the perfect teacher for you.” She took the time to help me connect with this teacher who has become such a bright light in my life. It was love at first lesson and at every lesson since.
I smiled as I thought of the many times I get asked why I still “need” to take piano lessons. The assumption is that I don’t need any help. After all, I started my piano journey nearly 59 years ago. I know how to read the notes–the dots and lines on the page hold meaning for me. I’ve learned quite a bit of piano literature. I have experience accompanying soloists and choirs. So, why would I want lessons?
I’m going to try to articulate a few reasons why:
- I believe in the magic that can happen when a student-teacher match is right. My current match with this teacher is definitely magic.
- I know the technique that I still need to learn and master to be able to play the music I want to play. In other words, I know what is still hard for me.
- At my first lesson, I learned one small thing about rotating my forearm that opened a new world to me when it comes to trills. (Think about how understanding a vocabulary word opens a whole text to the reader.)
- A teacher can introduce me to music I may never have found on my own. Already, I’m in love with literature that I had never heard before. (Just like matching books with readers, my teacher matches music to me.)
- Read here about the effort-driven rewards cycle. Working with our hands helps the brain.
- I know that practicing the piano puts me in a state of FLOW. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi wrote about this in his book, FINDING FLOW.
In other words, playing piano is my happy place.

I’m so happy yo found your teacher. Thank you for this list, too. I am going to read the link you shared, and appreciate that you shared it. Finally, it’s inspiring that you’re still working on your craft.
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“You.” (I can’t get it right). 😂 I’ll be so happy when WordPress grants us the ability to edit our comments post-publishing.
No worries, my friend! I appreciate your attention to detail!
Marilyn,
This is such a great thing! I’m so happy you found your happy place and a great teacher! I took a year of piano lessons as an adult about 10 years ago. I’ve never played but really wanted to and it was very challenging and I was one and done. This makes me wonder if I should give it another shot. I had a very nice teacher but there was no “magic” like you write about. Maybe when I retire?